Why Do Some Women Always Date Losers?
August 9, 2009 by Leo S
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Do you know of someone who has a pattern of always dating losers, bad boys, who always break their heart and leave them crying? For those women, oftentimes they need help in identifying the signs of such unreliable men.
Let’s define a loser as a man who is totally into himself and has little empathy for a woman’s needs. He is a man who has a pattern of sweet talking women in an attempt to sweep them off their feet and into the nearest bed. He will wine you and dine you and tell you how beautiful you are and how lucky he is to have met you. These men are very good at what they do because they’ve had a lot of practice!
These men are wonderful in the beginning of a relationship; however, in time they most always become less attached and more distant to their partner. Some never call back, others break dates and some even “forget” their wallet and their date ends up paying for the meal.
Have you ever met or dated a man such as this? Perhaps he never said he loved you, and whenever you spoke about commitment, he would change the subject.
The truth is that no woman ever wakes up in the morning and says to herself, “Today I need to find a man who will hurt me.” Rather what most often happens is that many women (and men) tend to confuse intensity with reliability. They meet someone who makes them FEEL wonderful or excited and they assume that he is a good man. The problem isn’t that their feelings are wrong. What gets them into trouble is that their intense feelings often cause them to ignore bad or inconsistent behavior that they would clearly see if they were not so emotionally involved.
What if there was a way to effortlessly attract men that were both exciting as well as dependable? Not simply a technique, but a manual that showed how successful women captivate men in such a way that they never get mistreated.
What if information was available to transform you into the woman that men adore? Thankfully such information is available and it’s just one click away. “The Woman Men Adore…and Never Want to Leave,” shows every woman the secrets to attract and keep the man of her dreams. Click here to see for yourself!
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Why do women get involved with men who are losers? Why do women stay with these losers and try to make it work when later down the road they realize their mistake in their choice but still won’t let go? A freind came to me today upset and crying because a man she had been involved with for 9 yrs who has been unemployed for 1 1/2 yrs has now become a burden in her life. She works a daily 9 to 5 and takes care of him while he is at home on computer all day. She also cares for his 3 children who visit and spends nights several days of the week. She says she loves him and it is hard for her to let him go but she knows she is unhappy in the relationship. What do you tell someone in a situation such as this?
I think she should end the relationship with him and move on in her life.
I have a friend who has a similar but yet not same situation. I guess to be honest they are different but same in the means of my friend is holding on when she should be letting go. My friend is a 60 yr old who is dating a 39 yr old man. They are 21 yrs difference in age. She is in love with this man but it is evident he is not in love with her and he is just seeing her for the sex. He is back and forth in her life and he only comes to visit her for sex and they do nothing else together, I mean nothing. She said she was going to leave him alone but she still keeps holding on. I just don’t understand why. Does she think she could not find love cause of her age? What is her problem. She has been doing this now for 2 yrs. I told her to discontinue the affair. Would you tell me why a woman would do this and why she just doesn’t move on when she knows that he is only involved with her for sex? Why would this young guy keep coming back to her for sex anyway? She is way older than he. He doesn’t love her although my girlfriend thinks he does. She’s too old for this.