How to Make One Fabulous First Impression
July 1, 2010 by Leo S
Filed under Dating Tips, Online Dating, Tips for Men, Tips for Women
The human mind and the brain have been programmed in such a way that we all tend to value first impressions greatly. Rightfully or wrongfully, we all develop our own opinions about a particular man or woman when we first meet. And at a fraction of a second, just after that first look, we tend to have our own opinion. Though this first impression often proves wrong when you have known the person for sometime, but since we cannot really know many people that closely, the first impression stays. Yes, we know that a book cannot be truly judged by its cover, but try convincing this to your brain. You will surely fail.
So if you are interested in dating, and if you are meeting that special someone, be careful. You need to make that first impression count.
How to make a great first impression?
Your appearance counts: The first thing the person will notice is how you look, and so, this matters greatly. While of course you cannot change the way you look, but you can surely take steps to appear smarter and your clothes can be very important here. Sure enough, your dress must look attractive, but you should not wear anything that is not comfortable. And you must also dress for the occasion. For example, if you are a woman and if he has asked you out on a dinner, then of course going out on jeans is not too bright.
Your posture matters: The way you stand and the way you sit matters a lot. Remain confident and alert when you are with him or her. You will not impress your date if you are constantly shifting or appear inattentive. The person may think that you are not really interested and are keener to follow what all in happening all around you.
Look interested and be interesting: Pay attention when he or she is speaking, even if the topic of conversation is not something you enjoy immensely. Ask questions and try to take an active part in the conversation – he or she should never be doing all the talking. But do not interrupt your date too often. When you are speaking, try to say something interesting. You should not be talking just for the sake of it.
Be gentle and show your manners: If you are a man, then you must always hold the door open for your date, offer her the seat, and tell her that you will drive to her home. But you must act natural and never overdo anything. For example, if she has already reached the door and you are a bit behind her, do not make a mad rush for the door and make everyone look at you. She is sure to feel awkward. Let her open the door and go in herself.
Compliment him/her: Do not shower your date with compliments, but do mention how good he or she looks. But do be sincere about what you are saying and talk specifics. The art is to notice the person carefully. If he is wearing a great shirt, mention this to him. If her hair looks lovely, compliment her for this.
By now as you know the every small steps counted towards creating a great first impression, start implementing them and make a great first impression on your date.
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