A Kiss or A Shake Hand

[sweet_lover]

Guys: What do you do after your first date, kiss your date or just shake her hand?

Ladies: What do you prefer after your first date, a kiss, a hug, or just shaking hands?

[lovely33]

Neither, I'm a hugging kind of person. If I like the guy than I am going to hug him. I'm not into hand shakes (especially with the Swine flu going around). I think it's fine to offer a quick peck too.

[polly1]

Hmmmm, well that depends on if I liked him. I love to kiss. I`m also a very huggy person lol. That sometimes chases the men away though. Of course some men just lean over and start to kiss you anyway. I just kiss back and decide if he is a good kisser hehehe.

[DatingDiva]

I would not kiss on the first date, well maybe on the cheek!

However, I am much more of a huggy type of person, like Polly. A handshake is too formal for me. It's a date, not a networking seminar, lol.

I like to take time to get to know the person before I kiss them.

[Psiren]

If he isn't a good kisser there will likely be no second date - better to find out from the get go! That said, I'm not talking about making out like we're in high school, but a nice kiss for a few seconds to figure out if we're on the same page.

[carrie]

How is a hand shake any worse than a hug when it comes to swine flu? For me, its not going to be a shake on the hand either, that is a business deal closed, not a good date gone awesome. ;)

[sweet_lover]

Cool down a bit ladies. So its obvious that most ladies likes to be kissed after the first date, except for lovely33. So guys, you know what to do.

Now about Swine Flu, if a person has this disease, it can infect another person through shaking hands, hugging, and much more with kissing.

[Looking4Love]

For me, I can usually tell what to do when I look into a woman's eyes. I can't really put my finger on it, but if there's a little twinkle, I slowly approach for a kiss. If not, then I'll just give a gentle hug and say thanks.

[Ronnie]

Swine flu is transferred through handshakes more than hugging. That is why you are told to wash your hands and keep them away from your face.
I still think the kiss is the way to go- then again I'm a guy and I'm all about kissing.

[JamesP]

I guess we guys like to kiss our date as soon as possible.

Guys, what will you do if the girl refuses to be kissed? Are you going to stay there until you get a kiss or just leave and keep your pride?