Have you ever slept with a guy on your first date?

[polly1]

When I was younger I did. Now I know better. I hate even admitting that I did it. But when they just are so good looking and knock your socks off you can`t help it. It`s really a bad idea. I don`t know if anyone will admit to this or not. But since it was in my past I don`t mind. After all this is an advice forum. So my advice is NO don`t do it.!

[sweet_lover]

Guys do really want to have that immediately after the first date. But I'm not one of them.

I respect the value of good relationship than a night of ecstasy. First dates are for knowing each other about everything about you except for the physical aspect. You could sleep together when you have already known each other well.

So I support polly for saying DON'T SLEEP WITH YOUR DATE ON THE FIRST DATE!

[Sadie]

I've made that mistake myself and it usually turns out pretty bad. I think if you're going to do that, you need to accept the fact that there is a high probability it will turn out to be a one night stand and there likely won't be a second date. So, if you really like someone and want to see them again, do not do it.

[Colleen]

I have actually never done this. I need to feel close to the person before sleeping with anyone and I don't think a guy would appreciate it or want to have anything to do with me afterwards.

[hermana]

I haven't slept with anyone on the first date either. I agree with Colleen that I need to feel really close to the person before I can sleep with them. It would strike me as something that would become a one night stand.

[dizzy]

To me if you are responsible its entirely up to you. I have in the past for dates and not so much dates but hook ups. We were all adults and had no issues. Its not something I did every time, but I did sometimes when the mood was just right.

[tikii]

I have done this too. I also was much younger. Back when I was young and had broken heart I didn`t care. I just wanted to be held. So if I had to sleep with him to get that I did it. I`m not proud of it now though. I also wouldn`t do it these days.