When to call

[Sadie]

Ok, so you just went on a first date with someone and things went really well and you want to see the person again. Do you wait for him to call? If you're going to call him, how long do you wait? I have been in situations where figuring out what to do about the phone call was more stressful than the date itself, lol.

[Sara]

I would call him and have in the past. I usually wait a few days, I don't know why maybe to avoid looking over eager. I don't give out my number so it is me that calls, if they don't want to give out their number I figure something must be up.

[tikii]

I give him my number if I like him. But like Sara I call him too. I wait a few days then call and talk about the last date and just chit chat. I`ll wait for him to ask about another date though. I figure if he likes me he will ask then. If he doesn`t I don`t bother asking him so I don`t get let down.

[sweet28]

I'm not waiting for them to call me, especially if I really liked him. I'm calling him within 2 days and asking for another date. If I don't call I'm texting him to grab lunch or something. Why wait for someone to call you, make the first move.