Background check

[lonesome50]

Have you ever considered having someone your dating back ground checked? I have. I haven`t done it but I would. You just never know these days. I have a brother in law that is a cop. It would be quite easy for me to do. See I told you I am not a trusting person lol.

[Ronnie]

Nope, never! If I thought I needed someone checked out, then I wouldn't be dating them in the first place. Man I would be furious if someone had me checked out before dating me or while dating me.

[lonelyheart]

Not a bad idea in this day and age. There was a woman at work who was dating a guy who ended up stalking her when she told him she was no longer interested in him. He was also physically abusive to her and even broke into her house one evening. Be careful out there.

[tikii]

I would have no problem with this. I have had some pretty bad relationships in the past. Had I paid for a bcakground check I would never have dated him in the first place. Men and women are not going to volunteer their jail records. I also wouldn`t mind someone doing a check on me. It`s just too dangerous these days.

[Claria]

There are places to do this and even companies that offer a monthly background check subscription which allows you to check as many people as you would like each month. I've found them very beneficial and highly recommend getting the bc done before dating.

[Shygirl]

I would never do this! You can usually find out what you need to know about someone if you ask the right questions and pay attention. Besides, what happens if you find nothing and this person finds out?