Is it good to Stay with alcoholic boyfriend?

[jennyatl09]

It’s sad to see someone being alcoholic whom you love. Yup, I have a alcoholic boyfriend... I love him very much.. we have been together for last 4 years... he takes care of me..never puts me down but sad thing is he can not quit drinking. When he drinks he will get into some kind of fights or arguments with people at the bar. One thing is there... even if he drinks too much he never fights with me... in fact he gets emotional. But, I am worried about him and my future. I am 25 years old. He is 29 years old... I want happy family but not sure if he will be able to handle the family with his drinking habit or not. What should I do? To be honest, I want to be with him but when I think about family it puts me in dilemma. Should I take tough decision and break relation with him? I am confused...what should I do with my alcoholic boyfriend? Please help...
I have a boyfriend that I been with for about 3 years. We're in love with each other. But he drinks a lot. He tells me he would stop drinking. Then a week or 2 later he's completely drunk again with a black eye or some type of fighting wound. He's one of those drinkers that likes to fight and gets angry quickly. Plus he sells drugs and isn't looking for a job. And is always dealing with some type of court case. But when he's not drinking he's really a nice guy. Should I leave him? Or will he change?

[erica]

It all depends on your preference whether you want to put up with it or not. Personally drinking one or two drinks a day is ok but if he is under the influence all the time then it is not a good idea.