Confused on What he wants

[elma]

I have been seeing this guy for more than 3 months as of today. It seems like he is confused on what he wants from current situation being with me. I asked few times about relationship and moving forward as a couple but he explains that he is not sure what he wants in life right now. It seems like whenever we plan to meet up, most of the time he is busy and sometimes he cancel the meeting last minute by giving work reason. Not sure if that’s excuse or real reason. But again he calls and keep the thing going. I thought he is not interested but then he keep in touch. We used to text too much and now only couple of text messages per day. I am the one who always plan for things to do together. I am getting vibe that I am the one who is trying to keep this thing going. Is it just my thoughts or do you feel the same? What should be done to get over with this situation? Am I too desperate?

[Scotty]

My 5 cents, It seems like he is really confused. He doesn't know what he wants in life. If he is really interested then he would have given priority to you. But, sometimes people might be passing through rough time at the same time they try to be nice to someone they care. In this situation, you are the best judge for yourself. If you think he is not having anything going on side with someone else they you should give him a benefit of doubt. It is always good to take decision slowly than rushing into things. Do not get so desperate..... try to stop thinking about him and take a break for some days... If he comes back to you that means he is really into you..... There are still few points to consider.. just make sure he is not calling you or coming to you only to fulfill his desire..

so do what your gut feelings tell you to do...

[CandyLove]

I couldn't agree anymore with Scotty.... he is right. He might be going through bad time, just give it a break and see if thats the case. Personally, I am kind of a person who needs solitude when I am going through rough time. And, as he mentioned that he wants to take his own sweet time then just give him his space. If you really like this man, then take it slow.. rushing or pushing into things, you might end up losing him. Do not prove yourself desparate.... Read this artilce posted here on this web site for your reference: 7 Signs of Desperate Dater