Looking for tips on First Date

[Leo]

Looking for tips on first date. I have been dating a lot but looks like I am screwing up in first date. Help me with some good tips to move to second date. I am not sure if I am acting weird or it's just some mannerism which I am failing to show.

Thanks in advance!

[jen0729]

Oh well.. let me ask you some question before I help you...

1) Are you a shy guy?
2) Are you super aggressive kind of a person?
3) Are you arrogant?

Give me some detail about you and I can help you getting some tips on first date. It all depends on your personality... and mannerism.

[sweet_lover]

And also, can you as well tell us a bit of the girls that you like to date with? Dating is not only about how you act but also on how you react to your date.

[Looking4Love]

Along with jen and sweet, I'd like to know where you are going on your first date? One of the things that I always did for a first date was to go on a lunch date. Make it informal so you can stay relaxed and so can your date.

[Nancy]

My best advice is to talk about the girl. Ask her questions about herself and her interests, show her you are interested in learning about her. I would also do the informal thing, someplace that you could talk but that you both can be comfortable at.

[sweet_lover]

Parks and coffee shops are good locations for dating. You could ask her first where she wanted to go. If she says its up to you, then you could suggest those places.

I'm not sure about the ladies, but I don't usually bring my date to movies on our first date, I usually bring her on the consecutive dates.

You mentioned about mannerism, try to talk with yourself at the mirror and you will discover your mannerisms. Or ask a friend what your bad mannerisms are.

[Looking4Love]

Lots of good advice here for you Leo. The difficult thing is that we can't see what you are like during a date. Maybe you exude too much tension and anxiety. Just don't know. Can you tell us more?