Blind Dates: The Real Rules & Tips
May 18, 2010 by Leo S
Filed under Dating Tips, Online Dating, Tips for Men, Tips for Women
A blind date can be something really exciting. You do not know someone at all, and you have never ever seen that person, and yet you have decided to go out on a date with him/her. There’s a feeling of adventure, of discovery of finding out how he/she looks and the person is like. So when you go ahead and meet that person, it can be like a thriller. However, there is another side to it. Blind dates could be risky and they could be complete let-downs as well. It may seem that you do not like the person at all and the entire evening is completely wasted. And not only that, you do not feel safe with your date and may feel like returning home sooner than expected.
So blind dates could either be extremely enjoyable or they could be a complete waste. I am hoping that few minutes of reading on blind date tips will be helpful. Just keep in mind the following blind date rules and you could have a great time.
Blind Date Tips # 1 – Discuss your date before going out on a blind date
It is usually the friends who set up a blind date. They know that you are single and are searching for a person for a relationship, and so they find someone who is also looking for a partner for dating. But you should tell them that it is not enough to find someone who is also interested in a date. In other words, being single can never be enough.
Your friends know you and they understand the kind of person you are. They also know your personal preferences. So, it is necessary to find someone who can match up with your taste and preferences. Perhaps the two of you should have some common interests and hobbies. This is important because otherwise, you cannot ever have a great time.
Blind Date Tips # 2 – Decide where to go on that blind date
You must plan the location carefully for blind date. When you are going out on a blind date, it is always advisable to go somewhere where there are a lot of people. Remember, you do not know the person at all and so, it is better to play it safe. This way, you can come out whenever you want if anything goes wrong. There are those who believe that you must never have dinner on your blind date. This is because, if you suddenly begin to despise the company, you have to stick around until both of you have finished eating. Also, when it is a blind date, you do not expect to spend a lot of money and do not want the other person to do it as well.
Blind Date Tips # 3 – Meeting for the first time on a blind date
Dress well for the meeting and reach the place early. Do not make your date wait for you. It is also perfectly acceptable to shake his/her hand and greet each other politely. Even though you might be feeling slightly nervous, but you should still try to smile as much as you can. Remember, the other person might also be nervous and a smile can make him/her feel easy and comfortable. If you are a man, you can hold the door open. On the other hand, if you are a woman, you should thank him when he does this.
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